ONLINE DATING

 

  Finding the One With Adult Dating Personals Who would have thought that you could find the one person you could probably spend the rest of your life with online? A few years ago, this would have been a hilarity for some, as the internet was a crucible for the weird and the predatory stalkers who only sought to use its communication capabilities for the nefarious and in some cases, the illegal. But as the internet got more and more established, and more governance was put in place as well as a higher sense of social responsibility by massive hosting companies and domain name providers, a sense of security is slowly seeping into the internet and with it, the proliferation of many adult dating personals that seek to end the litany in your life and find you, the end user, a life long partner. There are many things that you should look for when browsing through the thousands of profiles on the internet. Don't be surprised that there are so many people looking for love online and there

 

  The problem with being dishonest on your profile is that eventually they are going to find out. What happens if you tell someone you like sports, you meet in person, and they want to talk about sports with you? You don't have time to fish on the Internet for facts and information to tell them in person. The only thing you can do is tell them you lied about it to get their attention and hope that is not a turn off for them. Some people might find it sweet that you lied to get their attention. Unfortunately, most people are going to be turned off by the fact that you lied. The only real big difference when you are dating in your 50's is the fact that you are not as likely to talk about your plans for the future like a person dating in their 20's would. Chances are pretty good you already have a fairly established life. You just need to make sure you avoid talking about the past as no one really wants to hear about people you have dated before them.

  Fellas: even though one per hour is within the legal limit for a lot of guys (people), best keep it to two to three maximum over the entire date. Maximum! Yes, you’re nervous. So is she. Deal with it. Sober. If a gal tells you right off that her “clam” isn’t open for business without a commitment, believe her. If you’re looking to settle down without settling you want a woman with respectable standards. The 10 mil question is a classy way of finding out if the man must work and/or enjoys his work. Relevance: If he hates his work, why’s he still doing it? Fear? Security? Lack of options? Lack of creativity? etc The answer says a million different things about the person. Try it, you’ll see. Walking (or driving) a gal home is a gentle way to tell if she wants more of your company and can be a signal from her as to whether or not you should attempt to kiss her. As noted in my last blog, it’s ok to not kiss on the first date. If there’s mutual interest, her lips will be there next time.

  Genuine modesty is attractive. A woman feels more secure facing the crowd and men have fewer distractions (hot-ass servers, sports TVs, etc). However, when the man is “below” her—physically—it takes away from his masculine confidence, in both the woman’s and man’s perceptions. Swap seats. Booze: keep a level head. Intoxication is not sexy. First impressions! Ok, if you’re a (motor)biker, rocker or … nope, that’s it. If you’re a biker or rocker, drink whatever the F you want. But don’t get shit-hammered. Still not attractive.