- Genuine modesty is attractive.
- A woman feels more secure facing the crowd and men have fewer distractions (hot-ass servers, sports TVs, etc).
- However, when the man is “below” her—physically—it takes away from his masculine confidence, in both the woman’s and man’s perceptions. Swap seats.
- Booze: keep a level head.
- Intoxication is not sexy. First impressions!
- Ok, if you’re a (motor)biker, rocker or … nope, that’s it. If you’re a biker or rocker, drink whatever the F you want. But don’t get shit-hammered. Still not attractive.
Fellas: even though one per hour is within the legal limit for a lot of guys (people), best keep it to two to three maximum over the entire date. Maximum! Yes, you’re nervous. So is she. Deal with it. Sober. If a gal tells you right off that her “clam” isn’t open for business without a commitment, believe her. If you’re looking to settle down without settling you want a woman with respectable standards. The 10 mil question is a classy way of finding out if the man must work and/or enjoys his work. Relevance: If he hates his work, why’s he still doing it? Fear? Security? Lack of options? Lack of creativity? etc The answer says a million different things about the person. Try it, you’ll see. Walking (or driving) a gal home is a gentle way to tell if she wants more of your company and can be a signal from her as to whether or not you should attempt to kiss her. As noted in my last blog, it’s ok to not kiss on the first date. If there’s mutual interest, her lips will be there next ti...

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